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Psycho-social identity, how to know people like Jetnor Zhaboli

2024-01-27 14:19:38Aktualitet SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
Psycho-social identity, how to know people like Jetnor Zhaboli
Jetnor Zhaboli

According to preliminary sources, as soon as Jetnor Zhaboli heard his wife talking to other people, he took 'measures', isolating his wife, his mother and two minor children at home.

Such events are quite common in our country and according to experts, they are people who have great insecurities and try to hide this by keeping others under control.

"We find such people everywhere, but their characteristic is that they suffer from a personality disorder and become paranoid," says psychologist Arjana Muça for Gazetasi.al, adding that people with paranoid personality disorders are very distrustful of others and suspicious for their motives.

Muça says that the specific cause of personality disorders is unknown. But this type of disorder is caused by genetic and environmental influences and most often by childhood trauma.

The reactions or behaviors of these individuals often cause problems and limitations in relationships, social gatherings, and work or school settings.

Psycho-social identity, how to know people like Jetnor Zhaboli

"These factors make people with personality disorders feel isolated, which can contribute to depression and anxiety. This kind of behavior makes them suspicious and therefore this explains the form of their reactions towards family members", says Muça.

Even Manolita Hida, clinical developmental and relationship psychologist, believes that there are individuals who do not trust themselves and think that others will betray them behind their backs.

Also, there are people who may not have received the evaluation the way they wanted and when someone is not evaluated, it seems normal not to evaluate someone else, according to the psychologist.

She tells Gazetasi.al that we as a people have a very strong sense of belonging and we tend to treat everything as an object.

"In our education, we have elements that justify many behaviors that are not normal, such as violence. No matter how much we try to hide it, we have violence first", says Hida, adding that another element that affects people who commit such actions is the normalization of such events.

"The more such events are normalized, becoming public from time to time, the more such people act, because they begin to process them in their brains as normal situations and make them part of normality", says Hida.

Psycho-social identity, how to know people like Jetnor Zhaboli

Also, psychology says that it is also in our culture that men treat the house as their property, together with the people and all the objects that are there.

"We as a people fail to understand that people can live on their own. We think that the person we love should start the day with us and end it with us, be there at every moment. They may be people who have not received the love they have given. He has not found a safe haven to express his emotions and feelings. All these are done together to form the person who goes to extremes", says Hida.

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