You have finally met the man or boyfriend of your dreams. You are very enthusiastic about this new acquaintance and so it seems that he is too. But...suddenly you are overcome by the feeling that it is taking you by the legs. Maybe for him you are just a story to break the monotony? Because the premonition that you are girlfriend number two does not leave you comfortable.
Below are some tips to figure this out in time without giving the "prince in blue" the chance to enjoy two princesses. Read carefully some of the signs that indicate something like this.
1. He never invites you to dinner at a restaurant near his neighborhood. The idea that he chooses out-of-town restaurants may at first seem like something generous and a form of gentility. In fact, he just doesn't want the two of you to be seen together as a couple.
2. Your partner prefers you to stay in your apartment rather than invite you to his house. The excuses he gives are absurd. Because, if you pay a visit at home, you may discover that "your great love" can also be someone else's love.
3. Your boyfriend insists that you sleep together very soon after meeting. You must, because he can't waste his time with you (in other cases, there is a good chance that his girlfriend, the one before you, is out of town and he wants to take this opportunity with you).
4. Avoid compliments that sound like clichés, such as: "Tonight I find you irresistible!" or when he approaches, whispering in your ear: "I don't like that he stays so far away from me!". If he acts and talks like a Casanova, chances are he is.
5. The lover of your heart often goes on business trips, even when it comes to the weekend? Chances are he leads a double life and may spend weekends out of town with his other girlfriend; in the worst case, even with the wife.
6. When he is away from you in meetings or business trips, have you noticed that he does not give you many details about his work? Of course, because maybe this "special person" with whom you fell head over heels in love, is not where he says you are.
7. Have you noticed that the "little soul" prefers to send you e-mails instead of calling you? (There is a good chance that his partner, the other one, is in the room with him).
8. Even when he calls you, he doesn't take long; I close it all of a sudden. sometimes even without giving explanations at all. Other times, have you noticed that his voice is barely audible on the phone? These are just some of the signs that show that someone else is not only in his heart, but by his side, when he calls you.
9. When you first met him, did you notice that he only gave you his work number, while it took a long time to get his cell phone number? (This. for a very simple reason: he won't be bothered when he's with the other).
10. It is thought that his passion should be greater in the first phase of acquaintance, but here he is hardly ready to spend the weekends with you. The excuses are the same: work issues, family problems, an unexpected incident...
11. It seems like your "love" is always late for something and can't wait to "finish work quickly" and leave.
12. He doesn't give too much detail about his stories with ex-girlfriends (because ex-girlfriend stories aren't ex-girlfriend stories, but they still go on).
13. He always repeats the same stories or jokes to you because he can't remember if he told you or the other person these stories.
14. You're finally spending some time together. But here he comes out with an excuse and, with his cell phone in hand, refuses to talk in your presence, but goes outside. He will probably tell you that it was an important work call or that there was a line cut. In any other case, it seems as if he has kidney problems, because the long stays in the toilet are unjustifiable.
15. Have you noticed that he sometimes does not answer some strange phone calls? Can you find why?!
16. Have you ever approached the computer while it is checking e-mail? Poof. Immediately he closes it and you have nothing more to see.
17. He never leaves his cell phone on the table where you can easily check it. Because he can't let you learn something unexpected that you probably won't welcome.
18. His friends or colleagues do not feel comfortable in your presence.
19. If you find out that his friends are cheating types, there is a good chance that "your prince" is no exception.
20. You discover that your lover has not been honest in previous relationships. If he's cheated before, there's a good chance he'll do it again.