Kidnapping, betrayal, divorce with the ex-husband involved in the massacre of the former Block, Arjola Demiri tells all

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In the photo: Arjola Demiri

Arjola Demiri had a year that almost changed her life. After her participation in "Big Brother", she finally realized her dream of having a house of her own.

In the nights leading up to the final, she was given an apartment, which she still hasn't been able to take. It seems that her career as a moderator has already started, given that her project in Kosovo is already ready. It is a television show that will be broadcast on Sundays, quite family-friendly, and the presentation has been entrusted to the actress. But it seems that her difficult life will also become a movie.

"Actually, it's been more than three years since Kastriot Abdyli, a director from Kosovo, asked me to make the script of his life history. In fact, I have seen myself several times in film sequences of my life, and when I think about it, I will probably play her at this age because of course I was younger when I became a mother. Maybe it will be someone else in my place when I was younger. If this film will be made, which I really want to make, I have the impression that it would be quite successful abroad", said Arjola, thus revealing an upcoming plan of hers.

And about her difficult life, Arjola has spoken quite a bit. "When I started my career in Kosovo, since I saw that I had burdened my family for several years, I decided to leave the children with their father. I left them for a period of about 18 months, until they asked me to come back because they wanted my presence near them. When I return, only Alesia and Rubini come to me. Helga refused to come. Since I was in a court process, which should be an example to all mothers who get divorced and find themselves at zero, sometimes the separation of children is unfair. It has been a long, painful year because I could not find the strength to go and face my child.

I asked him twice at the school and he refused me, the moment had come when the Court would decide that Alesia and Rubini would stay with me, while Helga would stay with her father and his family. There came a point when I couldn't take it anymore. For months and months I had wanted to see her in my dream and it didn't work out, and just when I was experiencing my greatest success in my career, Helga was missing. Feeling a great pain, at the absence of Helga in my life, thinking that perhaps she was right about this period that I had left alone to stand up and be strong for their grace, I had a difficult month to get through night after night in a dream and I was thinking that something is up.

I did an action that probably all mothers can do. I went and 'abducted' my child… I waited, I woke up one morning breathless. I thought she was in an intensive care unit and she wasn't taking or giving and it was this dream that probably shook me and gave me the strength to go and wait for her to come home from school. It's the best decision I've made to take him by my side", said the actress.

Arjola has publicly admitted that her ex-husband physically abused her and that he betrayed her for 6 years in a row with her knowledge. Those years were not easy at all for the actress, the mother of three children, who in the struggle with depression also attempted suicide, from which her mother saved her.

Arjola Demiri's ex-husband is Ajax Boshnjaku. The name of Ajax Bosniak became known in October 2018, where he was involved in the massacre of the former Block where Fabiol Gaxha was killed. Ajaxi, Ervin Mata's friend, was accused of failing to report a crime.

Today, the Bosnian is the father of two twin boys with another woman, with whom Arjola Demiri also has criminal cases. Arjola has shown that she has finally taken custody of the 3 children she had from her cohabitation with Ajax, since she did not have a legal marriage with him.

It seems that if the film is made, the success of the film would be guaranteed, given the chilling details of this story. Arjola Demiri was recently invited to "Pardon my French", where she talked about her life after the end of "Big Brother Vip" and revealed if during this period there was anything new when it comes to sentimental life.

Also asked how she sees her ideal partner, the actress said: "Maybe I'm not the one I want. This is the truth because tough and strong women are hard to deal with. I also belong to the sign of Virgo so…. After a long analysis of who would be the perfect partner, it comes to the conclusion that it should be a strong and dominant man. Love and dating have become fast food and I am not interested in these things. I am interested in a strong man who fights alongside me. The journey is made together. In the event that in society they tell me that men are afraid to approach me and talk to me, they better stay away".

A part that "haunts" Ariola since leaving "BBVIP" is what happened to the house that the production gave him.

"At first I didn't want to speak because there were too many voices. There was nothing to talk about but the house, it started to torture me. Even without receiving the contract, I said that I received it because there was no room for doubt. Beyond us there have been thousands of messages about the house. Now the house is under construction, I said, and I have already signed the contract. I'm just waiting for a door to be put on it and to get the keys," she said.

Meanwhile, her relationship with the former competitor of "Për'puthen", Atdhe Xharavina, has been quite discussed. As they sometimes tease each other on social networks and sometimes say the nicest words, it is never clear if they are friends or "enemies". Atdhe Xharavina's latest move on his "Instagram" seems to have put the dots on the "i". Recently, the former contestant shared a photo of the actress with a special wish. "Happy birthday diva", writes Atdheu in "Instastory". Not even Arjola remained indifferent to this reaction. The actress has reposted the "story" on her "Instagram".

Earlier, Atdheu spoke in an interview for "Mirage", where he revealed how he had relations with Arjola. During the BBVIP period, the former contestant entered the famous house to clarify the misunderstanding between Arjola and Antonela Berisha. According to him, he felt obliged to fix the situation for the sake of the company he has with the actress.

He said that the relationship between them had changed a little, but they have a very sincere friendship, without interest and they can be mad about something very small, but still things that are fixed. Atdheu said that he will support Arjola as long as he lives, since she was by his side when he first came to Tirana./Panorama.plus


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