A sad story was revealed on TV Klan, where 23-year-old Bleona told that her sister's two-year-old son was burned with milk.
According to her, in addition to the pain that the mother feels in these cases, the anxiety and boredom of whether her child will live or not, Bleona's sister also had to face people's words.
She says that people often pester her sister by asking her many questions to quell their curiosity.
Bleona: On April 17 of this year, her sister's son was burned, because she is married and has a 2-year-old son. His son was burned with milk. He left the village, they took him to the Elbasan hospital. There they simply gave him some quick treatment, but they sent him to Tirana, put him in bed and for 28 days they did not give him hope to live because the burn was in the third stage. The sister was not told, with the help of God and the help of the doctors, the son threw it away and survived. On the 24th day, a doctor comes, looks at the boy, and the sister comes out from behind and asks him, how is he? While he tells her that the boy will not be saved and from that moment, the sister faints from time to time.
Ardit Gjebrea: How is the boy?
Bleona: Now it's better, only one leg has a problem, they can't bend the leg, the visits continue.
Ardit Gjebrea: In the meantime, the opinion started, the careless, that she had a mind, her son was burned.
Bleona: When she was in the hospital, they called her and asked her how she was, then when her sister answered that she was fine or that she would be fine, before hanging up, they asked her how she was doing? They wanted people to quench their curiosity, they wanted to know everything in detail. Was that the right time to know? And even later, even now that several months have passed. For what reason should you open the same wound? For what reason do you have to remember what the moment was like, where you were, what you did?
Ardit Gjebrea: How does the sister experience this story?
Bleona: Shumë keq. Tani ajo është edhe shtatzënë, pret edhe një vajzë dhe nuk po e përjeton si me djalin e parë, nuk po e shijon shtatzëninë. Sepse mërzitet shumë nga llafet e njerëzve, akoma nuk ndalojnë.
Ardit Gjebrea: Çfarë thonë?
Bleona: Në momentin që morën vesh që është shtatzënë, filluan? Përsëri je shtatzënë ti? Po si do i mbash ti dy fëmijë, të prisje dhe pak kohë që djali të rritej edhe pak, të bëhej më mirë, je shumë e vogël për të patur dy fëmijë. A do ja dalësh mbanë?
Ardit Gjebrea: Po ç’ju duhet atyre?
Bleona: Fjalët e njerëzve gjithmonë nuk ndalojnë.
Ardit Gjebrea: Ishin të njëjtit njerëz që të thoshin ty atëherë që ajo nuk ka vrarë gjurin, po do burrin.
Bleona: Po.
Ardit Gjebrea: Ndërkohë që sot si ka mundësi që ajo është shtatzënë e duhet të kujdeset për djalin etj etj. Po nuk u lodhën?
Bleona: Vazhdojnë.
Ardit Gjebrea: Why should you listen to them?
Bleona: I want to tell my sister this. I used to listen to them and feel bad, while today she is experiencing it very badly, she cries, she is tired. Once from the son because he cries all the time, it's not good, once from the pregnancy and people who make him uncomfortable.