They publicly confirmed the connection: People are slaughtering Elhaida through comments, but are they doing the right thing?

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They publicly confirmed the connection: People are slaughtering Elhaida through
Elhaida Dani and Lediani

During yesterday's show, on DWTS, Elhaida Dani and Lediani confirmed their new romance. The couple did not spare kisses in public and danced in the most passionate way possible, this time as two lovers who can freely express their love.

"We thought of sharing it, but not so much because it is something so sacred and delicate, and we would like to keep it to ourselves and share for the public what happened today, but not longer," said Elhaida, who probably did not thought that he would "face" with comments from the most diverse on social networks.

Soon after posting their video on the official Dancing with the Stars account, people almost "crossed the couple" accusing the singer of being the cause of the dancer's split from his ex-partner. Lediani, as can be read in the comments, has been in a relationship for many years that seems to have ended some time ago.

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As can be read in the comments above, there are many who call the decision to make public the relationship between them inappropriate, unnecessary and "low", just as there were many who compared Elhaida to Beatrix for the gesture made.

Let's pause here. Besides the fact that a good part of the commentators write impulsively driven by the passion of the moment, should Elhaida or any other girl be crucified in her place?!

First of all, before we give opinions or express insults of this kind, we should know that everything that happens between a couple belongs only to the couple and no one else. None of the commentators know for sure what happened to Lediani and his ex-partner, whose name is being used without any right in social networks. Even though a good part thinks that he is protecting her by taking revenge on Elhaida publicly, in fact he is harming her because he is violating the privacy of a girl who has chosen not to be public, her decisions (which none of us know ) and the desire to suddenly become the subject of conversation.

Second, relationships, breakups, love, betrayal are too complex and subtle to define someone as "guilty", "traitor", "unfaithful", etc, etc. Even those who claim to know more closely what might have happened between Lediani and his ex-partner, still know nothing because, we repeat: the relationship between a couple is known only by the 2 people involved.

Anyway, let's assume that it happened as some of the commentators claim: The dancer and the ex-partner were connected until a few weeks ago and that it was Elhaida who "kidnapped" the fiance of another girl.

You know very well that this is something that cannot happen! No one can take anyone, even more unwillingly. There is no such thing as "taking one's partner" especially if there is no space in a relationship. Lediani and his ex-partner may have separated yesterday, they may have separated 3 weeks ago, or 2 years ago, and as long as they are separated, everyone chooses their own direction and decisions. Someone chooses to make the new romance public 2 days later, others prefer not to create a relationship for a long time, as there are others who want to live the new love in the most private way possible. They are all choices, very emotional and personal. What counts at the end of the day is the level of consciousness that each person has not to hurt the other person, at least not intentionally.

Source: Anabel.al



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