NEVER say these four sentences on a first date

2022-10-29 00:02:42Lifestyle SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
NEVER say these four sentences on a first date
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You will never get a second chance to make a first impression on someone. If you are a person who is waiting to form a new relationship, then you should be very careful with who you meet. Not everyone is good at seduction, and there's nothing terrible about that, but if you don't want to miss the chance to make someone you like, you should know which topics you should never open. First impressions are important, and this is especially true when you like a person. 

"My ex..."

The first date is not the time to recount experiences from a previous relationship or insult your exes. If you continue dating, you can share some experiences from a previous relationship, but until you know the person well, don't share private information.

"I'm not looking for anything serious"
Even though you've left a complicated relationship and you don't need another relationship right away, you may want one in the future, but after this sentence you've ruined everything. Try not to give the impression of a person just looking for sex, if that's not the case!

"Why are you still alone?"

Doesn't that sound like "What's wrong with you, so you're alone?" If you are really interested in why he is single, address this question with a compliment, for example: "How does a charming and smart guy not have a girlfriend?"

"I know you like the gym, but you also like beer"

It is very good to comment on one of his photos, if you are talking about "Facebook" or another social network. In other cases, it's a bit awkward because it will come off as if you're checking up on him and looking at photos regularly and you're not still together.


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