In statistics, in a survey of 1,000 people, 7 out of 10 singles answered that they had returned to their past partners after not finding anything better. In such a case, relationship expert Sarah Louise Ryan lists for "Metro" the 6 green signals you can consider to make the decision to get back with a former partner.
Continuous contact
"If you and your ex keep in touch with each other regardless of who you're dating and find yourself attracted to each other even if you've started a new chapter, it could be a sign. If you don't feel as connected to the other people you connect with, pay attention."
You have admitted the mistakes
"If you've both accepted your mistakes and learned from what went wrong in your relationship, it can be an indication that you're capable of building something. A future can be there."
You can't imagine important moments without them
Sarah points out that being aware of each other's goals for the future is important. This helps you know who you want to see alongside you in the years to come. "If you really can't imagine the important moments of life without that person, this perception is essential."
You see each other as equals
"It's good to get back together if you see each other as equals, respect each other and can truly and honestly overcome the difficulties of the past. These blockages can range from anything from a lack of communication to emotional or sexual mistrust. You must have turned a completely new page and left behind what didn't work for you."
There is still a spark
“You should feel excited about the possibility of a future together and what it has in store for you as a couple. It should bring joy, hope and excitement. Relationships that stand the test of time are filled with friendship and respect. If you have that, it's a sure sign that there are foundations for other steps."
You have grown up
"If you feel that you have matured and invested in your inner growth, you can start the process. Make sure you have your limits, stay open and be honest and move on," concludes the expert.