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Besnik finds his biological mother after 41 years, but she rejects him: Maybe one day she will knock on me

2022-12-23 18:48:19Aktualitet SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
Besnik finds his biological mother after 41 years, but she rejects him: Maybe
Besnik and Rudina

Besnik Rika from Kuçova has found her biological mother. Indescribable emotions for the 41-year-old when for the first time he sees the image of the woman who gave birth to him.

The show "Without a Trace" finds the 64-year-old from Durrës, Rudina, who in 1981 gave birth to a son, whom she would later abandon in the maternity ward. The baby was adopted before turning one year old by the couple Xezmie and Qani Rika from Kuçova.

Besnik's story touched the hearts of many citizens, mostly those from the city of Durrës, where this secret was kept hidden for nearly 41 years. Accompanied by his wife Shega, Besnik Rika learns the truth of life, while moderator Odeta Dume communicates the news.  

Odeta Dume:  We have found the mother Besnik
Besnik Rika: Oh,  where is she? Is here? Has come?
Odeta Dume : I don't know, I don't see anything. Besnik knows that you are overwhelmed by emotions...
(Wife Shega cries)
Besnik Rika:  I am prepared for everything

The following minutes of the live broadcast become even more exciting, as it is not easy for Besnik to hear what the biological mother, who today lives in Italy, would communicate.

Rudina Gj.:  I heard this, that I follow your program. This is an event that happened 41 years ago. I'm sorry, that he didn't live a good life. Since I have closed this conversation, I have my family now, I am married and I am 20 years old and I have kept this story very secret. I was young then, it happened and I didn't know where it held me, the circumstances and that's it. 
Odeta Dume : You brought that boy 41 years ago, do you think that boy has the right to meet you?
Rudina Gj.:  I know those rights, despite the fact that I am 64 years old. I come from one of the best families in Durrës, no matter how it happened, because we were young.
Odeta Dume:  You want to connect with the boy?
Rudina Gj.: No no no. I will not go back, because it is a sin for that too. Because I was connected through the phone, I have to see him, talk to him, I will wait for him, I have to pass him on, I have to go and I don't want these things. You wait for the bride... where the mother is, with the woman with the toads 
Odeta Dume:  Rudina, are you married to an Albanian or an Italian citizen?
Rudina Gj.:  No, not with an Albanian, Durrsak
Odeta Dume:  Do you have sisters or brothers Besniku, do you have other children?
Rudina Gj.:  No, a son I had died 7 months ago. May he live to be 100 years old. 
Odeta Dume:  If you don't want to meet Besnik, please give him the opportunity to meet his father.
Rudina Gj.: I can't pry into his private life, just like I don't want prying into mine. That he is also married with children, at least since that time. 
Despite rejecting her son, Rudina raises several questions about him, without hiding her curiosity about her son's past.
Rudina Gj.:  Why did he lead a difficult life?
Odeta Dume: Because her parents didn't have economic opportunities, her parents gave her love.
Rudina Gj.:  I'm sorry, because I saw the way she spoke, I saw everything. However, I really can't relate to him without looking into his past, is he in trouble with the law. But I don't go back, because no one has told me this, not even my brothers. I was sorry, I can't speak. But will my people accept it? 
Odeta Dume:  What do you feel yourself? Do you have a message?
Rudina Gj.:  I have a heart message. May your life go as well as possible, I sincerely wish you this. I have health and other problems, I can't go back 41 years.

The 41-year-old gets emotional, while he has no words to describe his troubled feelings, perhaps because of the rejection. He leaves the studio with hopes that one day his biological mother will ask to come to him. 

"Të paktën t’i njihja fytyrën. Kaq doja. Një gllënkë qumësht nga ajo do ta kem pirë. Nëse do ta kisha përballë do ta përshëndetja. Unë i pres të gjtha. Ajo e dashka të jetë mister kjo gjë, por tashmë u bë publike. Unë nuk po bëj krim. Edhe unë nuk dua ti prishja jetën asaj. Thjeshtë ta dinë edhe të tjerët që paska lindur një fëmijë. Unë i pres të gjitha dhe të zezën dhe të bardhën. Ndoshta një ditë do të pendohet, e do jetë ajo që do të dojë të lidhet me mua, e të më takojë."

Pasi nëna e refuzoi, ’Pa Gjurmë’ zbuloi emrin e babait biologjik të Besnikut, Lutfi E., 66-vjeçarit që jeton po në qytetin e Durrësit.

"I don't dare to send a message to my father either, because I don't want to ruin his life. Maybe he doesn't want to either, maybe he has a secret too. If he followed me, if he wants to, let him come and see me " -concludes the 41-year-old overcome with emotion.

Besnik finds his biological mother after 41 years, but she rejects him: Maybe


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