Rudina Dembacaj considers her husband's daughters as her own daughters.
Between tears, she confessed in "S'e luan topi" with Erjona Rusi, that she is lucky to have those two girls in her life and she did not imagine that she would love them if they were her daughters. She even shows that she has support, in the most difficult moments they held her hand and wiped away her tears.
Erjona Rusi: Who will wipe your tears Rudina Dembacaj? Who holds your hand when you are in difficult moments?
Rudina Dembacaj: Recently, my older children Erta and Mara, I have never thought about it because from the outside they are my husband's children, but they are honestly my children. At first, Erjona, I addressed the children thinking that I am not and how I would like someone to address Viktorja.
I imagined the pain Viktorja would experience if I didn't live anymore. With this thought, I created the relationship with them that I think I have two extraordinary friends like Mara and Erta and a little love like Nardi, with whom we only caress.
It has been very strange and unpredictable how a family with three surnames could be, but I think it is the most beautiful oasis of love that I have ever experienced. I went through a difficult situation that wasn't that difficult, but at the time it happened, I didn't experience it well.
I had both of them, one in one hand and the other was wiping my tears. And I said thank you to God, I have been a very good person to deserve this good, what have I done to deserve these wonderful children and this pure relationship.