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Lira Gjika: How to behave when children do not listen to us 

2023-06-14 12:10:59Lifestyle SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX
Lira Gjika: How to behave when children do not listen to us 
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From Lira Gjika

"But how do we behave, when the children don't listen to us?" some mothers ask and continue "some yelling and a slap back doesn't do anything". Yes, it is true that a child does not die from a slap and a few screams. Unfortunately, the figure of the adult dies as a model of goodness, will, patience and citizenship.

The adult should react to the child only through speech and gentleness. The adult should condemn the action and not the child, as is unfortunately often the case.

The adult becomes fixated on the child and forgets to think about how he should manage the situation, what his reaction should be. Unfortunately, this type of behavior and thinking is not even found in educational institutions, such as kindergartens and schools. Parents, who come from harsh childhood experiences, find it difficult to behave differently with their children. Man cannot escape childhood. She or he, continues to involuntarily repeat the behavior that they exercised towards her or him, in childhood, without even realizing it.

Fortunately, even in Albania, the number of mothers and fathers is increasing, who have their children in the center of their attention and heroically cope with themselves, so that their children do not raise them as they were raised themselves, with shouting, impatient, cursed and beaten. These parents try to teach the human, the way they want (since the human is learned, not born), through thoughtful words chosen through love and not according to emotional charges and impatience of boredom.


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