'I have oral and anal sex to preserve my virginity', gynecology tells the case of the teenager

2022-05-10 20:36:49Lifestyle SHKRUAR NGA REDAKSIA VOX

'I have oral and anal sex to preserve my virginity', gynecology tells

Even though we are in 2022 virginity still remains a taboo in our country. There are many people who associate a girl's virginity with the morals and values ​​she has.

Gynecologist Moza Keta has told of her experience with a teenager, which seems like a fairy tale from the past, but is actually true. A teenager went to the gynecologist because of some acne on her tongue and told her that she only had anal and oral sex to preserve her virginity for the man she was going to take.

"My daughter came to the clinic who had sexual intercourse, little, 14 years old and told me I can not tell my mother that my mother says that you should lose your honor in the marriage bed. A good part of parents ask for it , who themselves have not behaved like that.And men who have definitely had sex with others seek to get an honest girl.It is indeed a taboo that has started to be broken but that exists.

To tell you an interesting message, a picture with my tongue had come to me, a girl had pulled out her tongue and had underlined some acne. Tells me, I have some acne on my tongue, are they HIV or Syphilis? I told him you should definitely come to the clinic to do the tests. Came to the clinic. I said do oral sex and anal sex, I'm honest, virgin. Why does she keep her virginity I told her? About the husband said. This also happens. A good part of teenagers do that too. "Of the virgin girls, 30% of them do this," said Moza Keta on the show "Ditë e Re".

The doctor appeals to parents for better communication with their children regarding sex education.

"I would pray for parents, society and all those who are following us to know how to communicate with their children. To really explain what is happening, what is happening in their body, to explain what sexuality is, sexual attraction. after all to explain that even if they have sex they are protected from an unwanted pregnancy and from the sexually transmitted diseases that are taking the lives of women today.

Today in the world every half hour a woman dies from cervical cancer. This happens because of an unprotected sex which is a virus called Human papillomavirus. The government has made the HPV vaccine free. All women and girls of childbearing potential should be vaccinated, this means saving lives. "The hymen is a thin membrane that shows nothing of a girl's virginity and honesty," said the gynecologist.

Asked if the doctor herself would judge girls who have a lot of sex or relationships with many partners, she answers.

"On the contrary, I would teach them to beware of these diseases that I said. After all, every girl has her life, she will live her life, certainly under the control of these diseases that can harm them."


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